Im 22 years old straight but I’ve been kissing and like almost going to have sex with another women but I’m intimidated by actually trying to go through with the act I really want too I just don’t know how to go about it, I’m sexually more attracted to women but I have more orgasms with men.. also when people ask me like what’s my sexuality I literally don’t know what to tell them
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if you dont want to enter any classification, just say your okay with both. no preference. up to you
You don’t have to tell people anything. But it sounds like you might be bisexual. I date men, I love men, but I also find women so attractive.
This sounds a lot like me! I consider myself to be straight (I’ve only ever been in relationships with men), but I’m actually hyper sexually attracted to, and have had some of the best sex ever with other girls or when another girl has been involved!
The best advice I can give you is, just experiment if you get the opportunity and try not to be too intimidated trying to work out what works for you. I wasted so much time before I realised I was sexually into other girls and acted on it
To me it’s like every other aspect of sex, just go with the flow and don’t worry what labels are attached or what anybody thinks about it. As long as it’s consenting adults and nobody’s getting hurt, have a great time. ❤️👍
When my wife was about 30 she started having curious urges about being with a woman. I always at least have tried to fulfill her fantasies and the thought of her being with a woman made me jealous, but, turned me on at the same time. I have always supported her and when the opportunity was presented to her I reluctantly let her pursue her fantasy mostly because she was not hiding anything from me. Her “friend” was more experienced and more dominant than my wife and started slowly with her. After several dates with her my wife considered herself bi-sexual.
Sexuality is complicated. Some people might prefer their emotional connections with one sex, but sexual connections with the other. There’s an absolute smorgasbord of terms to describe many of the variations and perhaps you’ll one day find some that accurately describe you.
>I’m sexually more attracted to women but I have more orgasms with men.
Is that a “the men have been better at interacting with your body” or “once sex starts men turn you on more, but otherwise you find women more visually appealing”? I honestly don’t know if there are labels to use no matter how you might answer that, but it’s not clear to me if you’re confused about how to describe your situation, or if you’re not quite sure what you actually enjoy.
What part(s) about straight sex are you look for clarification about?
Am I understanding correctly that you’re sexually attracted to men as well?
Are you romantically attracted to men?