How do I give a blowjob without feeling like I want to vomit?

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1. Talk about it…. Let him know your new to it. You don’t have to take all of him nor get him to the back of your throat.

2. There are a few ways you can get around the gag. Before I continue I will just mention, that some people love gaging while giving and or receiving a blow job.

   If you want to give a good blow job, you would want to use your favorite lubricant (I recommend using coconut oil) on the very base of the shaft, this is where you gently wrap your hand (with the lube that you have warmed up) on the base of the shaft and give and hand job while putting your mouth gently over the head of the shaft, perhaps ask him how he likes his tip played with, some people love less sucking and some people more. This allows you to limit the depth that it goes. And it also allows you to eventually connect your hand to your lips once you warm yourself up to it going in deeper and deeper.

   Good luck and get STI checkups

3. Yeah. How bad is your gag reflex? Like how far can you take it before you start to gag? Cause, it’s kinda like a little balancing act. You can’t expect to take it deep the whole time. I tend to deep throat it for a bit, gag a few times, but before I’m at vommitting stage ease up and work the minimal amount of the tip/shaft for a bit. When I feel a bit settled, take it deep again. Rinse repeat.

   You will get the hang of it and start to be able to take more the more you practise. Best thing. Get a dildo and practise with that when he isn’t around. Find one of similar girth, or girthier even. Might feel silly at first. But it’s well worth your while

4. Try a different joystick, maybe it’s not the one for you, or put a flavored condom.

5. doesn’t need to be a “shower together”. tell him he needs to go wash his dick, balls, and ass immediately before he expects you to suck it. if he still has his foreskin… he’s really gonna need to do a good job, pulling back it back, etc. tastes and smells don’t need to be off-putting to either partner. if someone REALLY tastes or smells THAT bad, well then, as soon as you go right back up to kiss them on their mouth, they’re gonna find out when they themselves from your mouth.

6. Maybe try only using your mouth on the tip and using your hand on the shaft, then when he’s about to cum make him cum on himself or you

7. My wife likes to keep a bottle of something sweet like agave close by when I’m not tasting so great, she’ll drizzle it on the tip, let it drip, then go to town. But if the taste of your partner is too off-putting, try convincing him to eat some fruit.