Men of Reddit, who dealt with a “nice girl” what was it like?

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1. A nightmare, 1 star out of 5, don’t recommend

2. Nice girls dont exist, for that you have to initiate things, or am i missing something ?

3. It’s pretty easy to figure out who are they

   So it’s easy to not interact with them

4. What is a “nice girl”?

5. They arnt like other girls

6. I never got to friendzone a girl before. But I had politely turn down some advances. lol

7. Oh shit , so few years ago i Hanged alot with girls , i would go out With like a group of them and one of them was this nice girl , she would get me alone and start acting creepy and say shit like : i am an open minded girl you know i wouldn’t care if you and i dated and you had other girls i am nice and i would forgive you , i would also not text you alot and start fights ever …etc it was like someone trying so hard (honestly i was going to go out With her out of pity ) she was saying those kind of things because she heard me saying complain about those things to one of my friends (guy friend) , but then she started to show some serious red flags which scared me so i convinced her that my parents arranged for me a marriage with this girl overseas so she moved on to the next guy in our friend group .

8. Nice

9. In these cases, the dynamics is different. Female version of a “nice guy” isn’t a woman who thinks that a man owes her sex because she was nice to him, but a woman who thinks than a guy owes her long-term relationship because she had sex with him.

10. It’s great. My gf doesn’t like spending money on herself and often would prefer to spend it on doing nice things for other people. She’s polite and cares about other people and makes sure what I want is taken into consideration. She says nice things about me and other people. It’s not always rainbows and sunshine, like when she gets hungry she gets really moody. But everyone gets like that sometimes. Generally I’ve been pretty happy with our relationship so far. Our 1 year is tomorrow

11. I’ve met a large handful. They are very entitled and demand men that they like to do everything for them. They are also usually very stupid.