I (24F) have been on two dates with a guy (24M) and we met almost two weeks ago. Our last date was 3 days ago and after it ended he said he wanted to see me again and kissed me. I had never kissed anyone before and after the kiss (which was honestly fine, maybe a little stiff and awkward) I felt so bad about it being awkward that I blurted out “I’m sorry I’ve never kissed anyone before”. He was visibly shocked and a little panicked. He apologized and asked if he over stepped a boundary. I apologized for not saying anything before the kiss and tried to reassure him that it was more about me being embarrassed than upset that it happened. We both just kind of stood there until I got in my car and basically ran away. I was SO embarrassed and deep down was hoping he would text me that night to reassure me/say something. He didn’t text me for almost two days. When he did, it was basically just “hey wanted to apologize again”. Since I didn’t hear from him I started to move on. Before the kiss I was 60% sure about seeing him again. The first date was amazing and the second one was just okay. I don’t want to not see him again just because the second date fell flat. But my biggest concern is not hearing from him for so long. I can kind of see how maybe it wasn’t as big of a deal to him as it was to me since that was new and anxiety inducing for me. I guess I’m wondering, am I being a little over dramatic for thinking he’s kind of an ass for waiting so long to text me.
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I don’t think wording it as giving him another chance is what you mean, cause that implies he did something wrong, but you seem to have said you were ok with being kissed? He is probably more so just freaked out because he thinks he crossed a line. Did you respond to him when he apologised via text a few days later?