How do you assimilate in normal everyday life given your weird fetishes ? I’m into owls, but i don’t tell people that upfront i save it for later. How do you manage to have small talk even though you couldn’t care less about the individual you’re in front of ? ex: like when you’re in an elevator.
I personally don’t give any eye contact to people unless im going to talk to them, i don’t look down because that appears weak, but i rather avoid looking at them keeping my head high. For some reason it makes people uncomfortable when i don’t look at them. IDK why though.
Any suggestions to improve my sociability ?
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You could always give a polite nod of acknowledgement when you or they enter the elevator. A ‘How are you?’ is nice, but not necessary.
Read all the tips listed here, especially the one on genuinely connecting with people and adding value to people’s lives: https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/trlexh/how_to_avoid_being_needy_or_stop_being_needy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf