Im a bit new to having sex so forgive me if this question sounds dumb. But me and my girlfriend started having sex recently and she wants me to give her oral which I said I would do. I know the spot you have to focus on the most during oral is the clit. Ive seen in porn that sometimes during sex the guy spreads her vagina lips and starts licking that but I know some stuff in porn is just for the camera. My question is do you or your partner enjoy their labia/lips being spread and licked?
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I personally prefer the lick or stimulate my clit along with fingering or using a toy. Both at the same time get me every time.
Have you talked to her about what she wants during oral?
Here’s [my guide to going down](https://old.reddit.com/user/neuenono/comments/91uyll/how_to_go_down_on_a_woman_with_links_to_the_nina/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=u_neuenono&utm_content=t3_7x47zc), which includes links to the infamous Nina Hartley vid as well as the nice guide/book She Comes First.
If there is one technique that gets women off most consistently, it’s this: open your mouth slightly, use *gentle* suction to hold her clit between your puckered lips, then massage her clit with your tongue. This works great, but it’s really under-rated and seldom discussed. That’s probably because it doesn’t really look like anything (nobody can learn it by watching porn) and the receiver probably doesn’t even know what’s being done (so a giver won’t even be taught the “move” by someone who enjoyed it in the past).
Spread, licked, and sucked…I like it all lol
You have to talk to your gf on what she prefers because everybody gets off differently.
Answer: use your mouth.