I was thinking of surprising the guy I’m fucking(we’re fwb). I wanna have my butt plug in for our date and as a surprise for when he undresses me.
It’s metal with a gem on the part that covers my butt. We’ve talked before and he’s into butt stuff so I felt maybe this would be a given?
Should I ask beforehand what he thinks of butt plugs? Or should I just go for it and see what his reaction is?
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Do it.
Sounds like good enough of an adventure. Go for it.
I would ask him if his date plans include going to place that might have a metal detector at the door, and then wink at him when he asks why. 😜
If he’s said before that he’s into butt stuff and made that clear, then surprise him.
I LOVE it when my SO surprises me with stuff like this (yup, I like butt stuff).
I say go for it. He will be so surprised and turned on! Every time I have one in at a public place, it’s so much fun. My man’s reaction is even better.
If he is into butt play this is a low risk high reward play… go for it.
Definitely do it!! it will be a huge turn on for him when he undresses you and notices your sexy surprise.
Have you ever worn a butt plug for a long period of time? If you’re going to out it in at home and then go out on a date and then back to his place, you’re talking about at least a few hours of wearing it. I’ve tried this a few times and found that unless you push a lot of lube into your butt before the plug goes in, it can get very uncomfortable if things dry up a bit.
Do it he’ll love it
I did the opposite recently. I came in my fwb’s ass and put a plug straight in her, then we went out to the pub for the evening
As a guy that’s into some butt stuff, I would be shook in the best of ways if you wore it on our date. Do it.
Perfect application .
Just wear it but don’t tell him
Sounds like you are covered. 🙂
That’d be hot
If he’s already expressed he likes butt stuff. Go for it. But I recommend putting it in closer to “doing the deed time”. Just for cleanliness just in case.
Go for it. You’re not slipping it into his butt, you’re doing this to yourself as a surprise for him. Totally good to go.
As a guy that is into “butt stuff” too, if I would get a surprise like that I would be over the moon. So go for it! He will probably love it.
If I had a guy I would do the same but it would a tail plug and matching ears.
GO FOR IT! He will love it!!!
I did that as a surprise once. We’d talked about how we both like butt stuff so I had mine in for our first hookup. He was turned on and flattered that I did that for him.
Go for it 💯
Surprise buttplug in his butt = not good.
In your own = good.
Those jewel ones are cute and iconic but I’m just warning you that they’re notorious for getting lost up your butt.
If the jeweled base of the plug is not significantly larger than the widest part of the plug, it can get vaccuumed up your butt. T-shaped butt plugs are safer for wearing to walk around in. They aren’t as cute.
I understand you may know already and accept the risk, just letting you know. Sometimes requires a trip to the hospital and a bill to get them out when this happens.
Reading the tile alone if say “no butt stuff should ever be a suppeised thing”
But something like this. Absolutely. It’ll be a great apprise for him.
Go for it!!!!! I’m sure he will love it!!!
Ok that’s such a sexy idea. I’ll try it out tonight lol
Did that with a guy I had ehem… Relations with 🤣 He REALLY liked it 😅
What is the worst that could happen
Wouldnt mind that surprise. Guess it would even make me wanna do you more. But thats just me
You could surely give him a hint, but if he’s into butt stuff he will NOT be disappointed or have any negative remarks with a plug. Guess I’m in “the same boat”, and I surely appreciate a piece of jeweelly. Don’t care that much if it will lead to anal or not, but it sure is sexy af F in my mind. Just seeing it AND feeling it is acually nice by itself, IMHO. Not that I mind going “the extra mile” if requested, though… :p A nice spice in the bedroom no matter what.
Go for it, girl..!!
Winning! What a lucky man…
You will both love it. If you leave it in for a while you might go with a thicker lube for ease when removing. Vaseline?
Go for it for sure
There have been many posts on this.
The metal jeweled butt plugs have been known to slip in and get lost. Be very advised if you choose to use them. Some of them are okay. Many many of them are not.
A correct butt plug should have a flared based that is 2-3x the size of the largest part of the plug. Anything less and you run the risk of it accidentally getting sucked in.
I do not say this to dissuade your idea. I think your idea is great. But, just be aware when using these particular plug designs.
YMMV
As someone who doesn’t think they’re that special, but is okay with butt stuff. I say go for it!
It certainly wouldn’t turn me off!
It’s your body do what you want. I highly doubt he is gonna be upset. If anything he will be turned on knowing you had that in the whole time.
Don’t ask just do it if a girl did that for me I would probably cum as soon as I found out and never gone soft haha do it!!!!
To add to all the warnings, a suggestion: slip off to the restroom at the end of dinner/movie and slid that puppy in. Yeah you’ll miss out on that extra slutty feeling but also possible trip to ER to get it fished out…