I am 23 and turned 23 in August. Man I screwed up life. After high school I pretty much dropped out of community college because I had no direction. I spent the next 3-4 years with my ex girlfriend. Before her I had only slept with two other girls and had such bad luck with other girls, plenty wanted me but it was always some bad luck situation wether no free crib or I messed up the game, shoulda had about 4-5 more. Either way ever since I stopped talking to my ex last August I haven’t had sex. My last time was in LA where she had moved some months ago. Now I find myself a whole year and a month later not laid and ONLY 3 BODIES AT 23. Like Jesus it’s so unholy sad. In the past year and almost a month there have been maybe like 15 girls I could’ve slept with but I am not a guy to sleep with anything because I’m incredibly horny. I’m fixing up my life with school and work after being all over the place after dropping out and it’s tough and not the best but hey life, but I find the worst thing of all of it to be is I only have 3 bodies at 23. Yea could’ve fucked 15 or more girls the past year but majority were like 5s and a few hot ones. Who at 23 has only 3? Everyone I know at minimum has 10. That’s like bad numbers. I missed the whole college hookup scene I regret it so much. I’ll be going to a 4 year by 24 so it’d just be predatory to try and hook up with classmates at that point. I made up for the party experience with parties, music festivals, trips and more. But 3 bodies at 23? I must be missing out more than tremendously right?
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Nah your doing pretty good. Be happy your part of the upper 20% because there are seriously way too many virgin men all the way into their 30’s
I’m 34 and I have 3. Quality over quantity, friend.
Dude you’re fine. I’m 23 with only 4, I could have way more but I fumbled the bag with TONS of girls in the past lol.
3 bodies at your age is totally fine. There’s tons of guys older than you with ZERO bodies. You’re not missing out by not participating in hookup culture, sex is soooo much better when you’re passionate about the other person.
As long as everyone is 18 age is just a number, I skipped the college hookup scene because I am a extreme introvert, and I am 26 with 1 body. It’s not about the quantity of people, it’s about the quantity of the people you share yourself with, because if you don’t trust them with your life then why trust them with your body?
Your main issue is referring to people as bodies.
Literally noone gives a shit how many people you’ve fucked except you
Worrying too much about your number of partners is a sign of insecurity. Not all sex is equally good, there is no guarantee you’d enjoy having lots of random hook ups. One stable partner could be a lot better than 365 one night stands.
The only question is whether the arrangement you’re currently pursuing feels good for you and if you’re interested in trying something else. If you are, feel free to try, but if you feel fine about your situation, don’t obsess about other people too much. Their preference could be different and they might not like it as much as you assume.