Hey all! I have posted here a lot and a question have been bugging my mind lately.
How to heal resentment?
And full disclosure, is not mainly my husband. I love him and all things are working great.
However, CC
Edit: my phone fell into my car and it posted and closed the app and now i noticed it posted LOL!
Is not towards my husband. Is his family mainly.
I was raised by a family that fights like any other family bur reconciliates and looks to a come back but his seems like dont.
I met him at church, and MIL is awesome, no complains but SIL doesnt behave like MIL or my husband. Lately, my brother in law got tickets for my sister in law to come home and spend time with us and it ended so bad we dont talk anymore and i am heartbroken.
We were like sisters, we were friends and we had our disagreements and all but this time it wasn’t my fault or my brother in law and we both ended messed up for it but of course I am the one who lives overseas so she doesnt talk to me no more.
I dont know how to come back from it. I miss her, I miss my friend and she seems to hate me.
My husband thinks she will not change but i have hope. I just dont know how to wait in the meantime.
2 comments
Time thats all it really is. People underestimate it. Long as you got full disclosure. Then all you can do is let time past
You process the emotions, you give them words that closely relate to them, and you validate your feelings by communication with feel statements to the people or person who did it or is supporting you
Better out then in
But allowing these feelings to be validated helps the healing