I’m 19F & just to put it bluntly i am i’d say very attractive.. so this is where i’m confused. Whenever i go out to clubs, bars anywhere all my other attractive friends will get the attention. Last week we went out & a total of 7 guys asked for her number & approached her in ONE night. She is pretty yes but i am just as. Although she does have a great body & i am quite curvy but also look good.. Even on dating apps sometimes i don’t get the message back! or unmatched?!. I would say i also have a good personality & i am quite confident, i know im young & don’t need to focus on any of this but it always leaves me feeling rubbish when all i want to do is meet someone naturally, it’s to the point where i don’t want to go out anymore as all my friends do get the attention. I don’t go out looking for it or wanting it but when it’s all around you , you can’t help but feel rubbish. So i am stopping myself from going out. I can’t meet someone naturally as i don’t get approached really.. , i have noticed a lot of guys will see me for a short while & agree to just casual things or they get a gf a week later who i wouldn’t say is on the outside anything amazing! , im just ranting sorry i just kind of feel really sad when i don’t understand what is wrong with me from the outside.

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  1. Could be multiple things:
    1) you having a resting bit** face, which could scare people off. On the brightside: men who dare approach you must be really into you 😉
    2) you being a “required” taste ( exterior wise) (example: caviar) while you friend is more “generic” taste like for example an Hamburger. Not that there is something wrong in both, but more people tend to naturally like hamburgers while you have to “learn” to eat caviar.
    3) you give off an too desperate vibe because you WANT people approach you while they don’t.
    4) you go to places where men go that have type (eg your friend).

    Appearance wise do you and your friend look alike?

  2. So you’re “quite curvy” .. do you mean you’re a big girl ? Because it factors in

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