Why it turns guys off when you tell them you do not smoke or drink (knowing that they asked me. It is not me randomly telling to look like a good girl)? Is this type of males are shitty ?

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  1. They are probably just guys who drink and smoke. If its that big of a problem for them then you are just not compatible.

  2. I find a lot of guys I date end up having self esteem problems and need to smoke and drink. They love the idea of being with someone that can encourage them to stop but ultimately they have a problem and need proper help. I don’t drink or smoke and if the chemistry is right, there’s no awkwardness at all and we have fun dates. I’d rather be happy in myself and alone than be with someone who thinks there’s something wrong with me. I keep telling myself there is someone out there who’s not bothered by not drinking! Will happen one day!

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