If you see someone you’re attracted to in public, what is the best way to engage?

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1. Don’t hit on people who are at work.

2. In general, I usually compliment people on choices they made like outfit or hairstyle. I do this in passing so that way the person doesn’t have to feel pressure to speak to me.

   If its someone on duty or working i try to ask how their day is going and how the job is treating them that day. Haven’t done this with a cop so idk what the outcome will be to that but usually for me if they aren’t busy they’ll rant to you about their job. I actually made a friend that way. This girl worked at a store i frequented and i would always ask how work was going or if anything interesting ever happens. Before i knew it she would see me walk into the store and then pull me aside saying “dude you have no clue how crazy it got over here!” We ended up being pretty good friends. I think generally caring about what people are doing and have going on is a great way to establish a rapport with people. I’d save flirting for when its mutual.

3. Go up to her and tell her you want to report a crime and when she asks what happened tell her that she stole your heart.

4. Lol don’t ask her out in job. For any job.

5. Walk right up to them and say hey you’re cute, can I have your number? I usually ask if they’re single first.

6. Well she was on duty so the correct answer is what you did: nothing. Leave women alone when they’re working

   Honestly leave them alone period unless it’s a place ppl go to to meet women. If you are, walk up introduce yourself and start a conversation

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8. It doesn’t matter if she’s on the job at all.Put the moves on her. Smile and talk to her with something she relates to.Make it witty,short and sweet.If she has no interest, move on.No harm,no foul. Think nothing of it and if you sparked her interest you ask her for her number.Make your confidence level high.

9. Put her in a headlock and ask her where she’s been all your life.

   Jk

   Before straight going to her, I would simply make some eye contact, a smile etc.

10. Just admire them from afar

11. I love the internet so much.

    Half the people are saying go for it, the other half are saying don’t bother people on the street.

    Guess there is no point in asking, do whatever you feel and that’s it.

12. You better be careful Western women can basically ruin your entire life and say that you raped them just for approaching them and asking for their number if they don’t think that you’re attractive so only ever approach a woman if you are not certain because she will try and destroy your entire life, because as a male, not being attractive makes you a bad person

13. commit a crime. ‘oh gee, looks like you have to … arrest
    me 😏’

14. I recommend not peeing on them

15. compliment them. anyone loves compliments and you’ll catch their eye it’s also a way to make them happy

16. Approach them and tell them what you think. That you find them attractive and that you would want to go out with them. Personally I appreciate honesty from the very beginning and if they say no, well that’s the worst that can happen and just move on

17. Get her to arrest you