Hi so I’m in my 20s and still got that V card but this girl that’s probably between 30-40 I think she want to bang but idk. She’s been a widow for 10 years and hasn’t been touched since. I would love to just slide right in but idk how to begin. Also do I tell her I’m still a virgin or do I not have to go through that conversation
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Ask her out.
Don’t get ahead of yourself.
Ask her to dinner and either say yes or no
Tell her exactly the point, in a right way. Both that you are still virgin and that she attract you too much and you would love to have a sex with her. Do **not** ask her out, disco, drinks or anything like that. It may not be viable or comfortable for her. If she wants you, she will take you in. Else you have to let go, she’s not into you.
Remember for older women it’s an achievement to get attracted by a young guy(just like opposite). You are the price, not her. Up to my 30y I never could get younger girl than me and older women went actively after me. So that’s what I had. In 21y I had a 39y f. I played with her 13y son games during day and in night I did her 🙂
Ok so. Just be calm and cool. Ask her out to go eat or get a drink. Strive for having fun with her. After ask, let’s go back to my/your place. If it’s a yes. Have fun.
Call her a woman instead of a girl. Ask her out and see where things go. Don’t use the word ‘bang’ if you ask her to have sex.