So….. I’ve been seeing a girl now for just less than a month. We are in a relationship now.

So before us she used to snap a lot of guys. Ever since I told her I’m not happy with it she has calmed down. She had friends which is fine and they can snap.

But there’s this one dude who she works with and they known each other before (don’t think anything has happened). But they snap pretty much all day, nothing rude but a few weeks ago he called her hot.

I am abit insecure yes but do you think I’m being un fair not wanting them to snap?

Thanks

2 comments

  1. Depends on how she replied to him calling her hot. Did she shut him down? If not it needs to happen. Also, if you know what is said between them on her snap because she shares it with you, that is a lot of trust a lot of people dont allow. I saw a guy who had a whole rant on youtube about how he feels dissed by even the slightest idea of his gf wanting to see anything on his phone. And loads of people agreed. If you have it better, thats great, but yeah, make sure she shut it down. If not its disrespectful. Its like a safety net full of eyes that eat her up. Is also disgusting if she is supposed to be in a committed relationship. Especially bad if the dude doesnt know she is in a relationship and she is stringing him along making him think he has a chance.

    These are my ‘ifs’. You didnt give much to go on; im not dissing your gf because I dont even know everything.

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