Sorry to put it so crudely, but I wonder which women here suck a guy simply to give him pleasure, versus those who actually get turned on by having a dick in their mouth.
If the former, how does giving a nice blowjob fulfill some mental cravings?
If the latter, what in particular is the most enjoyable feature about the penis that really appeals to you, stimulating your own personal physical senses? Is there a particular spot or part of the dick that’s just so fun/scrumptious to play with, and spend hours brushing against your lips/tongue? Why that part over all others is just so satisfying?
Or perhaps, are you a combination of both types of persons? In the end, is there one side that edges out the other?
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I (37f) yea a genuinely enjoy giving blow jobs for both reasons
I love a nice cock in my mouth makes me feel horny as can be
I also really enjoy giving my partner pleasure- what’s more fun that making a grown man twitch?!?
I just love giving my partner pleasure. Especially doing it in this way that he can’t replicate. There’s also this control you have over a dude when you’re blowing him. He thinks he’s in control, but he’s really not.
I actually love giving head to pleasure bf and for myself. I find it so easy, I can just lay there and go ham
I dont care about sucking dick, its a blah thing to me. Its not a turn on but not necessarily a turn off either. If its a casual sex thing (like 1 time only), im probably not gonna suck your dick but if i like you (or love you) i for sure will. There is something to be said for the slight sense of control and power that i get that IS a turn on.
I’ve been woth women who suck dick because they want to pleasure me and women who suck dick because they want it. The difference is huge.
I love it. Something about it gets me off actually if I can do the head backwards off the edge off the bed and he’s going for it. It’s weird but knowing how much he likes it does it for me and the feeling of the roughness. Doesn’t happen enough imo.
If they don’t enjoy it they shouldn’t do it.
I absolutely love every single bit of it. His pleasure becomes mine.
My wife loves to suck my dick, much more than I enjoy her doing it. She practically begs me to cum in her mouth, although I usually can’t. Happily it all works out, since I love going down on her more than she enjoys me doing it too. So in our bed, the giver is always the one having the most fun!
I genuinely enjoy it but I think it has a lot to do with the giving pleasure part of it
I love it in all the ways. First, it’s wonderful seeing and hearing your partner while giving him pleasure. It’s super hot! Second, I’m a bit submissive and love the idea of just having a cock shoved in my mouth. Third, gagging around his cock is hot. Fourth, I like being filled so I love when he shoots a big load down my throat. Fifth, penises just look fun and I love kissing, licking, sucking and stroking them. And balls in the mouth feel fun too! I love taking the tip of the penis in my mouth then slowly popping it out like a lollipop, or giving loads of kisses on the tip. The skin especially on the tip is soft and feels lovely against the lips. It’s just all fun to play with.
Honestly, I think the reason why I enjoy giving blowjobs so much is because the idea and the act itself align with my kinks. So whoever is thinking “omg perfect woman”, well, it’s just a lucky coincidence. Just because I’m mad about it doesn’t mean someone else is, or should be expected to be. Same with cunnilingus! I let my partner decide if he wants to go down on me, and if he does I let him know just how much I love and appreciate what he’s doing for me, and give him gentle pointers on how to do it if needed. Oral is such a lovely intimate act and all about the connection and communication between two people.
Also, just because I love oral, I’m not always down for giving head. Sometimes I’m not in the mood just like anyone else, it’s important that I want to give my all and focus on it 100% when I’m doing it, not lazily get on with it because I feel like I should. Enthusiasm and affection are necessary for me to enjoy it and give a good bj!
I freaking love it. The control you have, the pleasure it gives. One big party all around
I think I might be a combination of both, especially when my partner tries to keep their moans in but simply can’t. I get very wet during too so it’s good prep for me too hahaha
I think I only actually feel pleasure from it myself if I’m in love with the guy. It does nothing for me otherwise.
F18, i personally love it. Because i’m giving them pleasure and myself too, i don’t really know to explain how it gives me pleasure but what i know is that it makes me really wet. And hearing a man moan and see him all flustered is so sexy and such a BIG turn on.
I have always really enjoyed sucking dick. I enjoy giving pleasure so that is definitely part of it. But I also get a lot of pleasure out of being dominated my a man in bed. I love it when a man commands me to get on my knees for him. I love it when he grabs my hair and pushed my head down on him. I love it when he pushes himself deeper than he should. I love it when he holds my head down longer than he should. I love it when he goes harder and faster than he should. I love it when he uses my throat to cum. I love it when a man uses me like that.
I love giving head to a clean and not too large dick. My ex husband was too big and my jaw hurt from doing it.
But I love the taste of it, feeling them grow harder, when the balls tighten you know they’re close. I love the silky feel of the head and rubbing it on my lips. I love looking up at them and feeling them quiver. I love to bury their cock deeper when they tell me they’re going to cum. Best.
I absolutely enjoy it
Both. I think it’s a lot of fun to do and even more fun to see how he enjoys it. My partner keeps things very clean so I’ve never dealt with anything unpleasant which would make it way less fun. I am a competitive person so I love competing with myself to get better at deep throating.
Mental craving wise I am fairly submissive so it really ticks that box well. I also love to swallow so it’s the least messy sexual activity option when we are short on time/trying not to make a mess.
Honestly, I don’t really enjoy giving blow jobs. But I love love the enjoyment any partner I’ve had gets from them.
Its fully spotlight on them. Gives them so much enjoyment. And feeling them wiggle around all from me doing one thing for them.
Just fun for me.
I just really love sucking my boyfriends dick. I like the idea of doing a simple thing, gives him so much pleasure. So It’s both for me. I will suck my man anytime anywhere 😊
Giving my partner pleasure is the primary enjoyment. I like making him feel good, and I like how much he compliments me for it, both while I blow him and after. But I do actually enjoy the act of sucking dick as well. I have ADHD and I’ve found it to be kind of meditative. Like, I can just suck dick and not think about anything but that for a while. That’s pretty nice when my brain is like the inside of a train station full of chattering people.
I love giving pleasure, it is such a turn on to watch him all fired up… it just gets me going and doing whatever will make him feel explode