How can I meet women/new people in general as a 28 year old man with friends who are married/don’t enjoy going out anymore?

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  1. I dunno.

    Maybe volunteer? Head out to bars and talk to people about your extreme political opinions.

    Convert to Luciferianism and achieve great wealth and success at the cost of your eternal soul being forever owned by Lucifer Morningstar.

  2. Plan gettogethers with your married friends and encourage them to bring their friends or work friends

  3. I met my girlfriend on Facebook dating. But these days there are so many dating apps and stuff. As long as you’re up front with what you want. They can work out.

  4. Bars, clubs, online dating, complimenting them and asking for numbers on the street. That’s what I do. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt

  7. Clubs for hobbies you like and intermural sports is the way to go.

    I’m in my 30s and my friends are all married with kids as well. I did co-ed flag football for my school league, and met a few people there. Went out with some people from my gym to eat, and they invited friends as well.

    My non-married social circle is growing, and I’ve had a good amount of dates as of the last year or so.

    Just gotta pit yourself out there and meet new people. It’s hard when you’ve been out the game for a while, but once the cobwebs dust off you’re good to go.

  9. Go to church, join a club, become a regular at a cafe during the day, be very friendly, nice, and calm. Get out there and roll with the punches!!!

  10. The easiest way is to ask your friends’ wives to set you up. They will LOVE that.

  12. Seems most have been said but I can add one more:

    Be active in voice chat gaming. A lot of girls in Overwatch who should be staying in the kitchen.

  13. Im a 26 year old single guy going to college full time. It’s hard for me to meet women my age since I’m in a small college town, but what advice I can give you for meeting new people is joining a club or hobby that allows you to do that. When I moved here, I didn’t know anyone. So I got a part time job at a local rock climbing gym and I developed a friend group from the people I work with and the regulars who come, both men and women. Now not only do I have a cool hobby that keeps me active, but tons of people to do it with as well.

  14. It’s tough making and keeping friends as an adult. The older you get, the more your friends drop off as they enter a different stage of life. But you gotta just do it. Find hobbies where you meet new people, be proactive about hanging out, set up activites etc. It’s a lot like dating honestly.

  16. Have dinner parties with your married friends. Ask them if they know anyone you could hang out with? Join clubs or groups for things you are genuinely interested in

  17. Chill out and don’t over-extend yourself. For now join a co-ed activity.
    With 2 year you are going to get carpet bombed with available women. Be careful about committing despite the pressure that will be applied to do so.

    Watch out for getting set up by the wives of your married friends. They’ll know far too many women who cannot find a good man.

    Learn to stick to your standards and don’t settle.

  19. Online dating, just going out yourself, going for walks or just doing things, joining hobby clubs, volunteering in your community, semi-competitive sports, running and hiking groups, and even local chapters of your industry-related bodies. Just be an active and involved individual. You’ll make some new friends, and if you schedule dates, you’ll find someone eventually. I’m not saying it’s easy. Far from it, but the steps are doable.

  20. Take a foreign language class. They force you to talk to people there. Plus, you can learn another language.

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