Hi, just wondering this- I (22F) am in a LDR with my boyfriend (23M) of almost 2 years. He used to always want nudes/have phone sex but recently its been very rare (he says its because of his job and being too tired to do anything/masturbate). Hes not asked for nudes in months but he has occasionally asked me to show him something over FaceTime while he masturbated to it. Last night he asked me to show him my ass but I didnt do it- im thinking of sending him a nude of my ass today though as a nice surprise (also to get his attention a little too). But im not sure if itll be appreciated since hes not asked for nudes in forever. Ive never sent unexpected ones, ive only ever sent when hes asked. But wondering if its weird to send nudes unexpectedly. Especially considering hes not asked for them in ages and hasnt been very sexual/intimate with me recently.
TL;DR: long distance boyfriend hasn’t asked for nudes in months despite usually always being horny- says he still wants me but work is making him too tired to masturbate. Recently hes began to ask for facetime/phone sex again and he asked to show him my ass last night, I said no but want to send him a nude of it today to encourage intimacy again. Not sure if its weird to send unexpected nudes or if hell appreciate it considering he’s not asked for them in forever.
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Don’t do that! Stop doing it. Don’t do for any guy.you don’t know where those pictures will end up.
Have you two ever met in person?
To directly answer your question guys will generally love them no matter when you send them. Whether you should or not is your judgement call