So atm me and my gfs sex life has been pretty bad.
We usually start out by Teasing eachother we have sex,I stimulate her clit while I penetrate her, but she takes too long to orgasm so I usually orgasm first.
Then I eat her out, use fingers etc to finish her aswell, but it just like the tension is dead, and she isn’t that into it, I lay there for 20 min + and it’s jsut kinda pointless.
I really wanna make her orgasms proper but it’s super hard.
In the first 6-12 months I could make her cum easy, and she would have the best orgasms, but it’s jsut so hard now, it’s super frustrating as I want her to have fun aswell, and have some mind blowing orgasms.
Does anyone have some good tips, to go techniques or routines they always go with?
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How about doing the eating out first give her a few nice Os before penitration. Try a vibe on her clit while u fuck. Fuck her with a dildo. So many options and communicate
Maybe try to change your sexual routine with domination, role play, anal, and things like that. Routine in sex cans be a problem sometimes
This could indicate that she’s disengaging from you sexually, and in order to make her interested again, you need to add more novelty.
Women’s brains need more novelty and more variety in bed than men’s do. Novelty and variety are necessary in order for her to stay sexually invested, aroused and interested in her long-term partner.
In order for you to keep her sexually interested, you have got to understand that her desire stems from novelty, variety, and [exploring all the kinky things that interest her](https://366sexhacks.wordpress.com/2022/08/17/female-pleasure/)…….. not just the kinky stuff you’re interested in.