Me (22m) and my gf (19f) have been dating for over 9 months now and she’s been the greatest thing that ever happened to me. We’re in a healthy loving relationship and she always ensures to make me feel like im the best guy in the world but sometimes my overthinking and insecurities gets the best of me. I’ll just be sad just because of the thought of her leaving me for some other dude (i know she wont) and i still compare myself to her ex sometimes (they broke up a year ago) how do i deal with this issue? I want to try and resolve this myself cause I don’t want this to be an issue in the long run
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How do you deal with this? Well, like this – she may very well leave you for another dude. And you may not be as good as her ex in some ways. But guess what? You can’t control any of that. You can only control what you do today. So stop worrying about things you have absolutely no control over. Be the best person you can and make the best decisions you can – just do your best in all things. When you stop worrying about all that other stuff because even if you tried, you couldn’t do anything about it if you wanted – it makes your life a whole lot easier.