He (31M) knows but sometimes I (26F) feel guilty afterwards. We do like each other but I just can’t stop orgasming to flash backs and his nude photos. Is this a sign I’m “in too deep” or do other people masturbate to a specific person too without significant feelings towards that person? He masturbates to mine too. This “normal”?
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Normal is for you to decide. Cause everyone else is going to have their own definition of normal. Cause it’s your masturbating practice not anyone else’s. Some people will say masturbating is bad and you’re going to hell for it. But you’re not going to listen to that silliness right? So as long as you’re not hurting anyone, who cares what’s normal? Just be yourself and enjoy orgasming to what ever you want.
kinda curious of this too. i’ve had multiple boyfriends and just random guys i’ve hooked up with say they’d rather masturbate to my nudes than watch porn
A couple of my ex’s have kept or asked for more of my nudes so I’m wondering about this too!
You do you girl!
By no means can I speak for every other person out there. But at least for me (F32), it’s partially an extra layer of appeal – I know this person, thus it makes it even hotter to get off to them vs some random internet stranger. Oddly enough had this same discussion with an ex last night, we both still enjoy looking at one another even though we hadn’t been in touch for months until recently.
I think it’s somewhat unusual to masturbate to each other’s pics although you aren’t engaged in a relationship or FWB. But there is nothing wrong about it, since you both know about it and nobody has raised concern and you are seemingly consenting about it.
I’m curious, did you hook up in the last or how come you both have nudes of each other? If you want to get wild you might want to meet, sit in front of each other and watch the other masturbating while doing it yourself.