Been dating someone for over 2 months. We have a really good connection and and have been hanging out 2-3 time a week and she stays over every time we see eachother. We haven’t had the proper exclusive talk but she has told me she wants something long term with me.
I went on hinge today and notice she is gone from my matches. She unmatched me or deleted her profile and I don’t think it’s common to delete the actual hinge profile. Should I bring this up with her or should I let it be?
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Leave it be. Just figure out what your current plan is. Where are you headed with this.
How can anyone answer this if they don’t know why you would want to bring it up?
Just talk to her about being exclusive. It’s the logical outcome.
a) she deleted her Hinge because she feels ready to stop seeing others. So bring it up before she does
b) she blocked you on Hinge (or deleted Hinge and is using other apps) because she wants to date other people. So bring up exclusivity now, before she does, because that way she can break up with you now instead of cheating on you later.
Do not tell her you saw her disappear from Hinge*. You should just delete your own Hinge app and then have a conversation with her about exclusivity.
*Otherwise, you will be talking to her about why you are the one still on Hinge