I’m 20F and my bf is 21M. We recently got together and the passed 2 times I’ve went down on him he takes a long time to finish. I thought the first time took a while but yesterday I had to have been giving head/hj for a solid half hour before he finished. I almost threw in the towel cause I was getting sore. I’m sure he’s trying to be polite but he only gave me one pointer which was to “include the tip” when I give a hj. He also mentioned at one point I was squeezing too tight. I think I’m decent at giving head tbh but I’m feeling a bit self conscious now. Any advice?
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Every penis is different. Our advice is useless; you’re not giving US blowjobs. Ask him what HE likes. Listen. Execute. Case closed.
Advice from a guy.
Postscript: he should do the same for you.
Ask him what he prefers. Everyone is different.
Maybe he’s beating his meat to hard and to many times a day 😂
In addition to asking he what he’d like, you could also try prolonging pre blowjob fore play and make out/sit in his lap/grind on him a little longer.
Probably jacks off too much
I’ve asked to watch him get off so I can see how he prefers it. I’ve learned that my pulling down is essentially his pulling up (big difference). Liked lots of time on the head very wet but loosely, then I incorporate my mouth slowly while licking lips and basically stayed up top enough to know when it was time to move on down like Price is Right! That’s when you’re using both hands and mouth together and pretty close to quitting time if the stars are working with you. Lol! Buuuut, like you said, everyone is different. I need a tissue. lol
Edit: punctuation
Every man is different, somebody cums faster and somebody does not. For me, it takes a long time and it actually makes me a little worried that the girl will get bored. For example I didn’t cum at all during my first time.
However what really helps me is feeling same and comfortable with the person I’m with. And then what the other people said, discuss what your bf likes the most. Also there is a spot called frenulum which is really really sensitive, you could try playing with it with your tongue.