My (20M) bf (20M) and I have been together for almost 8 months now. We have gotten very accustomed to each other’s lifestyle and know each others family’s very well. But as of recently, we have been getting into many fights. Nasty ones. I have had only a few relationships; this is the first one I have had in a while. Commitment has always been a problem for me, and I think I need a break just to figure things out. I don’t want to break up with him forever I just think I need a break from being with him for now. This is just really hard to deal with.
TL;DR: I am scared of commitment and think I need a break from him to really figure things out.
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I don’t like breaks, because they rarely accomplish anything. If you two have been getting into lots of fights, you probably need to break up. Problems in a relationship should very rarely turn into actual fights/arguments. Usually you should just talk through them and come to resolutions.
Just do what you feel is right for you.