I have been wanting to ask my wife to let me record her giving me head, so that I can watch it when I have a wrist off. Idk how she will react to this idea.
I don’t really watch porn, I usually just think about my wife giving me head or some butt stuff(love her booty) and I’m good to go, but some video would be amazing to be able to pull up.
Don’t how to pop this particular question. Any ideas?
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First, make sure you are both comfortable and in a private place where you can talk about sex. Ease of conversation must be established, so pay attention to the mood of your partner before bringing up sensitive subjects.
— This suggestion is not as common sense as you might think! — Being aware and considerate of your partner’s needs and current feelings are **an integral part of any functioning relationship** but is, amazingly, still an effort most couples don’t take into account!
When the time is right and under the right conditions: begin by being playful and charming. Get into a sexual mood with your partner… you are about to speak to them about sex after all! Then, when things are going smoothly, lightly explain that you have some interests you’d like to try and bring the subject into hand.
And voila. There you go.
Just ask her if you can record the next time she gives you head because you love it so much and want to masturbate to it. Honestly, to me thats just romantic and flattering, but if she says no then thats your answer
Some men would be surprised to find out how often we can smell your ass wafting up when we give you a blowjob. My guess is that your wife has had this experience and is now turned off about putting her mouth on your ass. Can’t say for certain but based on her “intimate knowledge” this is probably her nice way of mentioning it.
Just ask her. Tell her how you masturbate to her and would love to have a visual aid when she’s not available.
That’s how I recorded my one and only sex video with a gf, she was going out of town, I just asked if hey can we record us together so I can help myself since you wont be around, she said that sounds fun and we did.
As far as kinks go, this is on the mild side of things so asking her isn’t likely to cause a bad reaction if she isn’t down for it.
In a non-sexual environment, simply say “Honey, I’ve had this little thing pop up in my head lately. I would love to film us doing a few things. Something to put in my spank bank for when I need to go have some solo time”
If you need some tips on how to actually record the video, there are some tips here:
[https://sexyfunadvice.com/2022/09/so-you-want-to-make-a-sex-film/](https://sexyfunadvice.com/2022/09/so-you-want-to-make-a-sex-film/)
A compromise u can offer is to keep her face obscured. When ever I talked to my gfs, one of the biggest hesitations is getting the private moment leaked online. Porn can still be really hot w/o showing identities, it might be an easier sell. Goodluck