hey men of reddit who left your wifes and maybe even kids. what struggles you went through, what was the red line she crossed, and how do you handle not having your kids around you. asking for a friend.

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1. When she came between me and my family. Big red line. Now I see my child less but that will get better in time and I’m happier than I’ve ever been 😁

2. She drank way too much. I told her to stop and then she drank more and lied about it. I was prepared to put up with it until it was unsafe for our kid.

   I went from seeing my kid every day to maybe once a week which is a really hard pill to swallow but it’s the price I pay for safety.

3. She was violent, abusive in every possible respect. She would threaten me with things like calling the police and claiming I had hit her. She regularly threatened suicide. I should have left her the first time she did any of that crap. Since then I’ve been mostly single, other than dating and situations. It’s great. After 13 years I STILL love coming home to a quiet house. I see my child half the time, which has required a LOT of struggle.