Not sure what to do here. Im horny and feel like masturbating as a last resort because I dont have a physical body to do it with (long distance) and I never masturbate. Ever. So on this rare occasion im wondering if he would also like to see. Hes at work and I dont want to ask him if he wants it cuz its supposed to be a surprise. Sorry for long explanation. So do you guys think he would mind if I sent him a video of me masturbating? Or wrong place and time.
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I mean I’ve never had any complaints when I’ve sent them to men but as he’s at work you might want to warn him to only open it when he’s on his own
If sending is not something you usually do you could ask if he would want to see! And then surprise him more in the future! But I don’t think I’ve ever been with a man that wouldn’t want to watch!
not at all
Fwb wants me to send him any pics and videos I want to send him whenever I’m up for sending them. If he’s at work and he can’t look at something filthy, he’ll just wait to open the message.
That having been said, there are plenty of guys who would care and be upset. Men are people. And just like other people of offering genders, they don’t all think and feel the same. If it’s a boundary that you’re concerned about, it’s more important to seek consent, rather than surprise someone with something that will make them feel upset or feel like a boundary is violated.
It’s for this reason that even though I’ve wanted to surprise my fwb with gifts in the past, I had a discussion with him about it rather than just springing something on him.
If someone is interested in you, there’s a good chance they’d like to see a video of you masturbating. I wouldn’t mind receiving one, but also my wife and I work from home. So we could go naked for most of the day if we wanted (which we sometimes do).
Would be a little awkward since she works in a retail store and I work from home 😉
there’s no wrong time and place to get a masturbation video. if i got masturbation video at work, then i will probably go somewhere in the building where i can safely jack off watching that.
or if thats not possible then i’ll do it right away when i get home.
No! That’s very sexy.
nope I love and encourage it from my wife when she’s on holidays