How do I pull a SO out of their comfort zone?

6 comments

1. Why are you trying to make them be different?

2. You should ask them first if they want help or if they like themselves the way they are.

3. Take turns, or share the experience somehow

4. Just the two of you initially then slowly introduce one or two friends.. let them build rapport over time.. then introduce others..

5. Why do they have to? Is this soldering they want it something you’ve decided they should want?

6. Why do they have to? Is this soldering they want it something you’ve decided they should want?