(20M) So I started dating this girl (20F) the other night and in a few days we have a second date.
On the first date we went for a 3 hours long walk. We had so much fun together and so given my friends were out I suggested we could join them. She said yes and the evening was great – we had a couple of drinks, my friends liked her, she liked them and I still had a ton of time with her alone to learn more about her.
Now as I’m planning the 2nd date I’m thinking of a nice dinner. I kind of liked the first date dynamic and I don’t know if it’s not self-destructive but should I invite her to hang out with my friends after the dinner?
In my mind this is a good opportunity for teasing and moving forward faster? Idk I’m new to dating
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I think it’s great that she met your friends! You can tell a lot about a person by the friends they keep so I’m sure it was a good experience for her.
That said, now that she’s already met them, theres no need to repeat the experience on the very next date. The whole point is for the two of you to get to know each other. Try focusing on that for a bit. But hey, if you feel like it and she feels like it, do whatever feels right.
Sounds like you got a good thing going, good luck!