I got my first orgasm with a bullet vibrator.
Before that, I couldn’t really feel any sensations just from hands on my clit. I always needed the vibe.
At one point it got so bad I couldn’t even cum using it – or it took me ages.
I realized I don’t wanna be dependent on some plastic toy, didn’t touch myself for 2 weeks, and then started touching myself just gradually _only_ using fingers on my clit.
Eventually it got easier and easier and now I’ve mastered finishing in a few minutes or less.
The next step is probably stop watching porn and finish just using my imagination 🧐
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You just relearned touch. What you did is similar to how sexual abuse survivors get over trauma and start to associate touch with pleasure instead of pain.
Congratulations!! I tried this with my sub. She can only cum with her Hitachi. We tried three weeks without it and she finally came, using a weaker vibe. She said she hated it and didn’t care to further wean off of it.
Maybe gradually go from visual porn to reading porn. Still get to use your imagination 😉 or even audio porn in headphones
how long did it take you to come from ur fingers for the first time? I have the same problem rn, the vibrator is just so convenient and feels so good 🙁
Seen too many people on this sub deny that this is a real thing. Congrats to you for recognizing it and deciding to grow
Always found fingers better than any machine
How? I want to learn…I’ve become desensitized from my vibrator
Same!
I used a little too much my satisfyer to the point that I was thinking that I might’ve been situational anorgasmic: it was taking so much time to the highest level, it was insane.
I stopped using it for a while, using only my finger and the sensation gradually came back.
Start reading some erotic novels for your imagination instead of porn, OR amateur porn instead, real amateur not those 4k one. Helped me a lot.
Congratulations! I wanna relearn touch too!
Congratulations!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 well done
Nice one! My ex could t seem to understand this concept and I’m happy to hear this worked out for you. Enjoy
You down for paid content and paid sexting service??
Not sure if it’s correlation or causation but I’ve definitely noticed that women who use vibrators regularly have a tougher time getting off without. I’m not a huge fan of incorporating toys in the bedroom so it’s sort of a compatibility issue for me.