So I’m 18f and I’ve always been super shy, never been in a relationship before, never been on a date and never done any kind of that stuff and to be very honest it doesn’t bother me. Like it’s just not something I actively look for and I don’t really care for that stuff.
But I have recently been trying to be more friendly and outgoing just for the sake of making friends cause that’s something I’ve struggled with but I’ve noticed a lot of the guys mistake my friendliness for as I sign that I’m into them and it makes me extremely uncomfortable when they begin to flirt (idek why I feel this way but I just get an ick sort of)
Social interactions are definitely not my strongest trait so idk how to give them the hint that I’m not interested
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Tell them you’re asexual? It might work. I’d go soft if a chick told me that. Then again, you’ll probably have some douchebags that take that as a challenge… idk, good luck.
Don’t hint.
Guys are going to flirt regardless of if you’re nice or not. We have to, it’s our obligation to initiate most of the time. A simple “Thanks, but no thanks.” will make 99% of men back off. As long as we know the expectations upfront you should rarely have a problem with this type of response from unwanted advances.
Just tell them
Just say you re saving yourself for marriage or that you re a virgin. That will keep every guy away.