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Infidelity.
Probably the same thing most people do – that it won’t last. Or that the person will end up being something different than what they portrayed themselves as in the beginning. Happens all the time. I’ve yet to ever really have met anyone who seemed exactly the same after a few months of dating than they were before I decided to date them. Sure, people can change, but most things don’t change that fast.
That I won’t be able to keep my promises. Staying with her. I’m also afraid of my emotions being used against me to keep me from leaving her
Waste of our time
That they might end up being a serial killer.
I won’t be able to remember her name
Her past. The things she’s done that led up to this very moment where you are considering being a relationship with her.
Did she cheat on her partner and desperate to be with someone?
Is she a drug/alcohol addict that her partner no longer tolerated with?
Is her batshit behavior caused domestic violence in her relationships?
Too many questions.
That she’ll find out how boring I am and lose interest.
Falling for them for months and one day getting the “we need to talk text” and turning into strangers again.
Abandonment!
It’s a mad one that one!
In my experience, nothing. It’s always been pure excitement.
That their dad isn’t a looker.
Being so happy that I treat her well and then she repels because she thinks I’m wrapped around her finger
Cheating
Nothing. Once I get past the awkward first few weeks it’s great.
that my new partner is just wearing a mask
That everything they say during the honeymoon phase is a lie.
Examples: I love you and you alone. I can’t see myself with anyone else.i don’t want anyone else but you. I just assume it’s a lie and will say we shall see.
Nothing. Relationships are fun, not scary.
That they will be similar to past relationships over time
being rejected after a few weeks or months
Being abandoned out of no where. Basically giving me no explanation or ghosting me
That I will act very needy
Two things. First, that I’ll end up being crushed again. And second, that I won’t be able to love again the way I want to as a result.
Disappointing them.