So people say to not look for dating and a relationship because you wont find it.
However at the same time people say that if you don’t go look for it, it isn’t gonna come and find you.
So my question Reddit is, Which one is it?
Cause in my own personal experience, neither of them has worked for me right now 😂
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I saw this a lot too, but imo it’s bad advice. It’s about being open and approachable (for a relationship) but not actively seeking it.
Being open and approachable to give everyone a chance and not actively seeking it to avoid setting unrealistic standards and getting frustrated. This helped me at least.
Good luck