Lately i am seeing a lot of women saying that they are attracted to hot and cold games, toxic traits and recognise it and want to change but like the drama? Or the other excitement
What’s the reason or logic behind it ? The excitement of not knowing what’s next? Sudden butterflies? Feeling sad and happy again and like a roller coaster ?
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Your logic is faulty. You don’t try to understand it. You don’t try to accomodate it. If you encounter it, you ignore it then block it. End of the story. Let the bottom feeders date eachother.
Probably attention seeking. Getting high on the bursts of attention.
I learned about Something in my social studys class where people make Others “obsessed” With them, First showering them With Love, affection and Attention then completely forgot about them, beeing cold and all that. The Person who gets this Treatment will do anything to get that Love Back and try to get in contact again. Its because it completely abuses those Happy Feeling at First, leaving them Desperate for that extra Serotonin, its a pretty good Manipulation tactic. Sorry for all my spelling misstakes, this isnt my First language
Cause we are the dudes with the big dicks and good sex that they wish and want to make into the perfect bf/hubby/father that they forget most of us toxic dudes are batshit crazy or emotionally dead inside. I’m also bipolar so call it the trifecta