Met a girl at a party last week. Short story, we were playing a drinking game, she pressed forward and we made out. Maybe im overinterpreting things, but before we even made out, she hold my chin and pulled me in. With the other boys she kissed, it was only a quick kiss on the cheek. Two days after i actually misclicked and called her. Because of that we started texting and she followed me on Insta and liked all of my pictures. We’re gonna see each other again at a party in 2 weeks and im really unsure if i should ask her out. She’s sometimes with a guy around who seems to be interested into her but after i asked him he said “its complicated” and didnt want to elobarate. Since the topic seemed to be a downer for him, I didn’t ask any further questions and it was before we made out. I guess from that what i understood is that he is interested but she kinda “friendzoned” him and there isnt anything serious. From experience i know that he is pretty annoying to deal around if someone tries to date a girl he’s interested in. I dont know if i should wait till the party and ask her directly and see whats the deal is between them and if it wouldnt be awkward if i ask her out now, she declines and we met again at the party.
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Ask her out now, sorry for profiling you but it sounds like you’re highschool/pre university dating scene from the way you described the friend she hangs around and the drinking game involving kissing. Getting turned down is not that awkward. It’s a little disheartening if you build it up first. Don’t build it up, it might not be a good fit. Ask her on a date to see if it feels right and remember that that’s for you to judge too. If she says no it’s no big deal. Just one person deciding ahead of time it feels wrong for any particular reason. It won’t even be awkward at parties. To think about it in perspective if a guy told you that he asked her out and she said no, would you think less of him? Or would you be a little impressed that he shot his shot. Think about it that way. It’s not a big deal at all so ask.
Ask her out now, sorry for profiling you but it sounds like you’re highschool/pre university dating scene from the way you described the friend she hangs around and the drinking game involving kissing. Getting turned down is not that awkward. It’s a little disheartening if you build it up first. Don’t build it up, it might not be a good fit. Ask her on a date to see if it feels right and remember that that’s for you to judge too. If she says no it’s no big deal. Just one person deciding ahead of time it feels wrong for any particular reason. It won’t even be awkward at parties. To think about it in perspective if a guy told you that he asked her out and she said no, would you think less of him? Or would you be a little impressed that he shot his shot. Think about it that way. It’s not a big deal at all so ask.
Ask her out now, sorry for profiling you but it sounds like you’re highschool/pre university dating scene from the way you described the friend she hangs around and the drinking game involving kissing. Getting turned down is not that awkward. It’s a little disheartening if you build it up first. Don’t build it up, it might not be a good fit. Ask her on a date to see if it feels right and remember that that’s for you to judge too. If she says no it’s no big deal. Just one person deciding ahead of time it feels wrong for any particular reason. It won’t even be awkward at parties. To think about it in perspective if a guy told you that he asked her out and she said no, would you think less of him? Or would you be a little impressed that he shot his shot. Think about it that way. It’s not a big deal at all so ask.