I (22M) matched with a girl (19F) on tinder a month and a half ago. She is the girl with whom I have connected the most, we can talk for hours and I feel so comfortable with her.
Yesterday we went on our third date ( we couldn’t meet until two weeks ago because we were both on vacation) and I tried to kiss her, she rejected the kiss but she told me that she had a horrible day and it was not the right moment but that I should try another day. I thought that it was odd but I told her that there was no problem and we made plans to hang out today.
The problem is that I think that she has ghosted me, she always writes me during the morning to tell me about her day and today nothing, I’ve written her but no response. We are supposed to hang out in a couple of hours, but I don’t even know if she is going to go or not.
What should I do? Should I move on and stop trying?
2 comments
the trying to kiss her thing probably freaked her out a bit. once she replies you should probably ask if it made her uncomfortable and apologise if it did. if not ask her if something else is the issue.
You may need to move on and wish her the best