Hi I need help somehow I cannot stop being an hole when I don’t mean it. My girlfriend is perfect but I keep upsetting her by being stupid. I say things that come across as controlling but I don’t mean stuff that way. I also say things that make her feel self conscious but I mean them.in other ways or am just nad about her am so obsessed that I want her at every moment.
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This is too vague. How are you acting specifically? Are you not respecting her boundaries? Controlling?
Gotta be specific.
Consider therapy or counseling at school, there are resources for people who don’t know techniques to control their emotions.
I think I’m being controlling but I don’t mean to be. I say things in a way that they come across as that but I don’t want them to mean that