I’ve recently been branching out sexually since moving to college and keep running into this issue. I’ve had a handful of sexual partners including two women and my ex boyfriend.
But I’ve only ever come once during sex and even then it was not the most pleasant experience (didn’t feel great and had a bit of a stressful episode after). I’m not a sex repulsed person by any means, I’m very attracted to my partners and I enjoy the idea of having sex. My partners are able to make me feel really good but I never really get close or orgasm as a result. Sex just isn’t super stimulating for some reason??
For context I’ve never had trouble finishing when I masturbate. I’m fact my experience with masturbation makes me feel as though I should be overly sensitive to sex. But when it comes to the deed itself I just don’t get as worked up or stimulated. Sorry for the long winded question but I’m very confused and distressed about this.