Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 7 months now. And before we started dating I would listen to GWA audios to get off because it was all I had. I would listen to MDlb audios cause that’s what I’m into. And I introduced him to my mommy kink and ever since I have, nothing else has been able to turn me on. Not porn, GWA, or any sexual NSFW subreddit. They just don’t do it for me anymore.
While I like the fact that he turns me on rather quickly, since we don’t live together, when I need to get off, I have nothing to reference. I don’t like nudes so that wouldn’t do anything.
Does anybody else feel like this with their partner? Is there anything I can do that can get me off while I’m alone?
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Not currently in a relationship, but when I have been in the past I experience the same thing. Kinda annoying, since the pictures from the internet, and even people other than the person I’m dating just lose their appeal to me. Just stuck with my imagination if I want to have some solo-fun time.
I’m a guy btw, and I’m also curious how common this is.
I’ve (18F) been dating my bf (19M) for 4 months and he’s the only thing that can physically turn me on besides my vibrator. Idk if ur only referencing physical stuff or verbally, but yeah if any other man touched me even in a sexual way I would not b with it and I’d be so uncomfortable because I don’t want them I want my boyfriend. If I watched a porn video it would probably turn me on but we don’t watch porn anymore out of respect.
Tbh male nudes are not even on the same level as female nudes so I feel u there. I have a video of my bf finishing with sound so when I’m not with him I’ll just use my vibrator and listen to that.
If you don’t have a vibrator I strongly suggest getting one it’s amazing and everyone I know that uses one loves it.
Personally it makes me so sad that people can’t just use their imagination. Yeah a visual or listening to something is better but what did people do without the internet or magazines? Very view men in this world would be able to handle an internet crash since it would mean they would lose their dear porn (ik some women too) and it’s so sad since it’s actually so bad for you (addicts or soon to be addicts will disagree).
So I’d say just try imaging you and him doing things while using a vibrator or playback flashbacks of you and him together.
This is the burden of being Demisexual. I’m right there with y’all.
Sext? Read old messages? Have him send pics?