How do I tell the guy I’m dating I’m practicing celibacy?:-(

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1. Besides just telling him? You should just come out and tell him.

2. I’m practicing celibacy at the moment… Yes, yes I am, it means abstinence pretty much… No, I’m not joking we won’t be having sex… Yes none at all… Because I’m practicing celibacy.

3. Remind him and if he keeps pushing, you should leave him alone.

4. Well the best way is to confront him and share your thoughts.

5. You tell him immediately, you should have told him BEFORE you dated him. You are essentially lying and misleading him and he doesn’t deserve that.

6. By using your words before you ever start dating him.

   Of course, people who are intentionally celibate also just generally shouldn’t date in the first place 9 times out of 10. And then the remainder of the time, they should still mostly stick to either asexual people or other people who have embraced celibacy.

   >I’m running out of ways to distract the situation.

   Have you ever heard of a little thing called treating other people with respect and dignity?

7. You should make sure you both clear on that before dating. You are wasting both of your time.

8. Is it a religious thing or medical? Either way you should probably have mentioned this earlier but bring it up as soon as possible and explain the decision so he can decide if he wants to keep seeing you

9. > running out of ways to distract the situation.

   how about u stop wasting his time

10. Tell him to get it elsewhere if he wants to keep dating you.