My (21m) girlfriend (17f) keeps telling me stories about what she used to do before we met, and how she went to the club regularly with friends and how guys kept hitting on her and she goes along and most of the times they kiss or go out together.
She tells me all this so that I get to know her better, not in order to anger me, I know almost everything about her. The fact that she kissed like 30 guys before me, 10 of them in a span of a few months which was just before we met.
This really bothers me and although I can’t do anything about it because it’s her past, I can’t seem to get along with it, I keep having imagines in my head of her dancing with club boys and kissing them
She tells me that that’s the past and I’m the present and the future, I can tell that she loves me and I love her too, but everytime I think about her past it just makes me wanna break stuff.
Also, she told me that she’s going to a club again on her birthday next month.
How can I get along with this, what’s the mindset?
TL;DR: girlfriend is a club girl
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Not the type of girl I’d date. But, to each their own.
You shouldn’t be dating a 17 year old. Jesus.
try dating someone your age and leave the high schooler alone lol
how is she even getting into clubs at only 17?
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One. You shouldnt be with a minor.
Two. If you don’t like who she is. Break up.
This is the most UK I’ve read today
Maybe don’t date teenagers, regardless of if she’s only 3.5 years younger. She’s in high school dude.
So you have a right not to know. You can tell her, “hey, I’m not offering any judgment about your past, but I’d rather not hear about it” when she starts telling one of these stories.
That being said, “everytime I think about her past it just makes me wanna break stuff” deserves some interrogation. Why? They say an emotion is our body’s reaction to a thought – so what’s the thought? What’s the story or meaning you are putting on these actions of hers, that causes you to be so upset?
Because it really doesn’t have anything to do with you at all. So you’re putting some meaning on it. What is it?
she is 17 man date more mature age people. she is in her hot girl party times cause if she is 17 and doing all that. she isn’t the age where they tend to pump the brakes you are just climbing the hill on this roller coaster so buck up and be ready for a wild ride young one.
Shes like, a junior bro, or a senior, ur graduating college soon
17?!?! Dude I was a CHILD at 17, I’m 19 and STILL don’t feel like a mature adult. I don’t care if it’s 3.5 years, she’s still too young right now. If she was 21 and you were 25 that’s different. She’s at least matured a bit. Disgusting, find someone your own age and leave the girl alone creep.