The question was asked between my whole department in work (10 of us). It came a shock that I was the ONLY one in the group that said I came during my first ever sexual encounter.
Some of them said they were the ‘giver’ so didn’t get the chance. Some say they and/or their partner were inexperienced so didn’t know how to get there.
Whatever your story.. Did you orgasm during your first ever sexual encounter with another person?
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Literally it I was the two pump, load and dump champ that day
Yes he fingered me until I orgasmed
No.
I was generally socially inexperienced too, which was a factor.
I made her cum, a lot, but I never got to, because I thought she was satisfied and that I should stop.
I still regret it to this day that I sacrificed my needs for what ended up being false assumptions on my part.
We had a looong relationship so had plenty of opportunities to talk about it afterwards
Nope… but he just assumed I came because I was really wet, saying I squirted 🙄. He was pretty experienced too but said he’d never been with a virgin or a girl as shy as me, so maybe he didn’t know how to read my body language.
I did not. In fact, I never orgasmed once during my first relationship (7+ years), only through masturbation. I had my first partnered orgasm this year, at the age of 26.
Yes
I (F29) think its a hard question for me to answer because my first sexual experiences kind of escalated over the course of a few weeks from just kissing (no orgasm), having my nipples played with (no orgasm) and then eventually full sex. The first time my boyfriend at the time reached orgasm with me I didn’t have an orgasm because I wasn’t being stimulated (I was the giver). But the first time that stimulation occurred that had the potential to bring me to orgasm I did have an orgasm.
Ha ha ha NO
I think when both people are virgins or the male hasn’t had loads of practice then the chance of this happening is <0.01%.
Yes.
Like in many accounts of people’s first encounters, we were both super inexperienced (for example, I had never even seen an actual erect penis before, neither in reality nor in photographs), and penetration didn’t last long.
But neither of these was important, what helped me get off really was the emotional and mental state of arousal more than anything, and the duration of penetration was irrelevant to my orgasming anyways.
Yes but he was amazingly hot and used the speed bump position on me^^
No when me and my at the time gf finally worked up the courage to do it I couldn’t get up long enough to perform for more than a minute or 2 kept worrying about getting pregnant lol even worse 2 condoms. Tho I didn’t want to disappoint so I eat her out and played with her until she was shaking.
Tho after that we started doing it almost every time we had the chance I was honestly nervous of being that guy that cums after a minute or 2 but it actually took me like 2 months of sex before I actually was able to cum from her with vaginal sex when she sucked or jerked me off I could but vaginal sex I just couldn’t. I always strived to get her off but considering i just couldn’t get myself to bust there were times we’d be having sex for so long the condom ripped and those times were the closest I got to busting and it wasn’t until after she got birth control and we started doing it raw did I finally get to.
No, neither me or my partner came. I think it was down to nerves of first experience, first time together etc as since then we have made each other cum many times
The guys probably yes in about 30 seconds, the girls probably no!
Yep in like 2 seconds. In a Volkswagen Golf.
Nope. I become sexually active at 18, had an orgasm with someone else at 24.
Yeah.. It was actually the first thing I did.
#selfburn
Nope. It lasted for a while but neither I or my partner came.
No. Still fun though.
Yes but there was no penetration! I was 16, she was 15 & we went to a drive in movie. Started with the usual kissing & over the clothes fondling. Eventually I unbuttoned her blouse & she opened my jeans. I was fondling her bra covered breasts & rubbing her panty covered pussy under her skirt. She started rubbing me thru my skivvies & within a couple minutes I erupted! She then proceeded to “guide” my hands on how to fondle her breasts (she had lifted her bra) as well as how to stroke her covered crotch until she orgasmed. It was the most glorious thing to see & feel her body twitch & spasm & her legs clamp on my hand! I immediately fell in luv with making her climax! We dated for 6 months or so, never had penetrative sex but always got each other off. By the 4th/5th date we were hands in the pants but never even fully undressed. Many a date since have been appreciative of how my first sexual GF taught me how to use my fingers!
No but it was still a good experience. I was just way too nervous and in my own head about it.
No. It took three boyfriends to find out what it was like to cum but once I figured out how a partner could get me there I never kept an inexperienced or selfish lover after. If they weren’t open to direction I wasn’t open at all.
Yeah I think my gf was giving me a handy or something
I did. For some reason we were watching The Crow on her parents bed. (They weren’t home) we had sex, I took the condom off and it spilled on her dad’s pillow lol. I just flipped it over and left….
No, someone had to use the elevator and she wouldn’t move her mouth
No, it took months of practice for me. He was honestly just really bad at it and had weird habits from his ex
No.
I wasn’t with anyone who knew what they were doing for years And years.