I get mixed signals from my friend, I’ve known him for 4 months
My friend, who is 25M, suddenly changes with me 20F , replies late, ignores my messages for hours even when he’s active & is able to communicate with others.
He often replies in short, dry texts to me.
I asked him twice if he’s comfortable while talking to me, if he’s distancing himself on purpose. He replied that he’s comfortable with me & isn’t distancing himself or anything, he just got busy. But still does write short replies when he talks to me.
I don’t know what to do
I don’t wanna lose him
What should I do?
I’m lost
TL;DR: I receive mixed signals from my friend, he’s distancing himself even though he claims the opposite. I don’t wanna lose him
1 comment
This sounds normal. Sometimes he wants to chat with you and sometimes he is focused on other things. I don’t think this is mixed signals or there is anything you need to do. I think you just are expecting too frequent and consistent communication from a friend. It’s not distancing oneself to to not be constantly replying to everything immediately. That’s just healthy behavior.