Hello. I set up an account here on purpose. I have to ask you something, gentlemen, it is extremely important to me, so I am begging you for honesty. Once upon a time, someone disturbed my sexual self-confidence a lot. Enough to believe that guys don’t like vaginal sex, that it’s the worst for them, that they don’t need it. That they are doing it for us. That they prefer oral sex, anal sex, and even the hand .. After this man, I started reading a lot. Unfortunately, that didn’t help. men wrote that the vagina gave the weakest feelings. That everything is better. I believed. I have a partner, and almost 30 years old, and im still traumatized, believing that all sex is for me, not for him. He still lives on the belief that you physically consider him the worst. Look at how many topics there are about a girl having doubts about vaginal sex. So I don’t think it just happened to me. I’m not looking for help, I want to know if it’s true. Do you have vaginal sex for emotional reasons? physically does not offer you anything good and the weakest way of stimulation? see how many articles there are about the loss of erection … because the vagina is the weakest, or the title “better tight hand or loose vagina” – where a sexologist tries to tell young people that sex is an emotional bond. Do you really feel this way? I have enough, crying, I don’t enjoy sex, I don’t feel feminine, I don’t want to … Why does everyone present vaginal sex as the worst? is it like that? can you live without it? I believed so much that I can not bring happiness to myself and my partner. Please, have your say. Only to be honest, the worst I’ve already seen, heard, go ahead
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Not at all, i prefer vaginal sex the most, its feels amazing when you’re in tume with your partner. Its emotional, physical and sensual for me
I personally don’t know what you gave been reading or seeing, but there is nothing better than sinking deep in a soaking wet pussy and fucking it senseless! Vaginal sex is amazing
I speak for all heterosexual men in the world. Yes we love pussy. We especially love pussies who’s owner has consented for us to put our dicks inside. It’s the best !
Vaginal Sex is the best! A wet warm vagina is the best feeling in the world for a dick.
I went half way and stopped…..heck no! Sure all those things you mentioned are good, but nothing and I mean nothing beats the intimacy and whole body feeling of piv! Nuh-thing! Now I’m 50 and married so I’m well past the immature male view of sex. Being with my wife, looking into her eyes, feeling ourselves pushing into each other is one of the great joys of being in an intimate relationship.
Talk to your guy. Let him know your insecurities if you want to work through them. They won’t fix themselves.
I’m not a man, but ma’am I don’t know what you’ve been exposed to or what kind of men you’ve been around. Men have literally lost their minds or gone to war over pussy. Not anal. Not handjobs. Just pussy 😂
Not sure where you read that, but I don’t know a guy that’s said “Yea… I had to stick my dick in this girl… It was such a bummer…” Maybe the guy you were with just had a tiny thin penis.
PIV is best.
I think how the internet works today may have skewed your opinion into something far from the norm. When you search to confirm a suspicion, you will most likely find someone somewhere thinking that, but the consensus is far from it. There is no gender conspiracy or long con going on. Preferences will differ from person to person and while you may have found someone who genuinely doesn’t like it, the consensus is that men love PIV.
Although my GF gives such good head that I could see myself living without having PiV anymore, I just love vaginal intercourse.
The moment I’m entering it is the best feeling in the universe, and cumming inside is heavenly.
IDK where you got this trauma from, but stay assured that most men, while they enjoy other activities as much, enjoy putting their dick in a vagina, not only to please their partner or for emotional reasons. We like sex, we want sex, we want to dick you down as much as possible.
Sex is about shared enjoyment. What works for both of you should matter. Pillow talk is part of the game good night
Uhhhh who told you that needs to be thrown in a pit.
Of course we love pussy, I love eating it and cumming in it. I like all the other stuff to as anal is tighter but that doesn’t mean I do t like to cream inside the pussy.
Completely untrue, unless you’re that loose or his dick is just too small lol
Us men love the vag lol
not a man but i have a bf, we are both oretty honest about we ve tried everything and his favourite is ofc vaginal sex. He also loves the other stuff, bit i think any man who tell you vagina is the worst probably has a death grip and or porn addiction.
He loves vaginal sex the most because its warm, soft and wraps around him and i enjoy too a lot! loves to see and gear my pleasure from it, big turn on for him.
Oh girl, I think you got pulled into a bubble that doesn’ represent the general perception at all.
One idiot was enough for you to believe a few people and articles posting BS.
I have a friend whose boyfriend quit the relationship because, as he said, ‘she gets too wet’, and he couldn’t feel a thing because of that. I’d say, that’s pretty similar to your case.
Just like you, she was devestated and self-conscious though NONE of her previous partners said such a thing.
If a man doesn’t like vaginal sex, it has less to do with the vagina beeing too lose and more with the individual’s penis not beeing sensitive enough.
One can train that. If he doesn’t and just claims vaginas are the worst, he’s just plain stupid for missing out.
Don’t listen to the less than 1 percent of men.
If I gave my man the choice for one thing for the rest of their lifes,handjob, vaginal, anal or oral sex, it would be 100 percent pussy.
As a hot-blooded straight male, nothing beats the feeling of sliding my dick inside a wet pussy. Busting inside is pure heaven. It’s literally what men were born to do.
That’s horrible.
I’ll be completely honest. They all feel great.
My favourite, vagina with her on top.
Next, her on back, Anal, with vibrator on clit and dido in vagina.
Next, her with legs in the air, her on her back, in vagina.
Next, Doggy style Vaginal or Anal, I really can’t decide.
But I may be skewed myself towards Anal because she prefers it and enjoys it more, and her pleasure means a lot to me!
Some where down the list of positions much further is oral and handjobs.
But I also don’t have a thin dick, and she does planks which makes her pussy something of monster, if she squeezes it’s tighter than her arse, I don’t like it when she does because I feel like she’s pushing me out, and I can’t get it in.
Of every woman I have been inside both holes on, I don’t think that preference order is different.
You found a really weird rabbit hole, and I think you suffered something called confirmation bias.
I think you should research what confirmation bias is and how it has skewed your research
Any man who doesn’t fuck pussy “or like pussy” isn’t a man.
They haven’t graduated sexually to the next level there still in the boys section.
But just brush it off hopefully that guy has learned from his foolish thinking as well.
Also you can practice kegels to make pussy tighter if you did not know already
What the hell have you been reading??
My partner is a very attractive physically fit 26 year old guy and he has no interest in anal and only passing interest in oral because in his words “nothing is better than vaginal sex”
I’ve never in my life heard a guy say or read anywhere that men don’t like vaginal sex.
Most women don’t even orgasm for penis-in-vagina action so why would it supposedly “be doing it for her only”??
Y’all this is a reverse play on the posts about men being insecure that their female partners don’t get much pleasure from PIV. And it does make a valuable point about the way both sexes are irrationally conditioned to believe their masculinity/femininity is directly tied to pleasing their partner *with their genitals*. And to a lesser extent that we go after death grip guys for not doing more to make sure they enjoy their partner’s vagina, but never really take that approach with women who are under stimulated by their male partner or by his cock.
The problem is that so many of these red pillers get indignant about the fact that men (generally) get more physical pleasure from PIV than anything else, and for women that is not the case. Well, sorry. The idea that a woman’s genitals are the inverse of a man’s is a nice myth, but it isn’t reality. Learn to love the clit, and it will love you back.
Anyway to finally get to the question posed here, there *are* men who prefer other types of stimulation. They are all nice in different ways and variety is the spice. And the emotional connection IS a big part of what makes some PIV sex amazing. And those are good things, not bad. Something to enjoy, not a reason to feel badly about oneself.
You deserve a good lay. I’m sorry but the vagina is made for great things.
it’s literally the best lol
What? You have some weird friends I guess. Pussy is literally the thing I (33M) constantly think about.
Vaginal sex feels absolutely amazing (both physically and emotionally). Whoever tells you something else is either just lying or super weirdo.
Look anal is very awesome. Handjobs are amazing. Great head is a life changing experience.
HOWEVER… Not a single moment doing any of these thing is ingrained in my mind as deep as the most beautiful shocking awe inspiring moment when I am deep inside my wife just a few feet or inches even from being face to face and she has a soul shattering orgasm. That OMG I can’t even think str8 enough to figure out what to do with my face look. Her whole body quaking and her legs trying to wrap around and never let me go. That deep stare immediately after where she can’t talk and is just trying catch her breath. The moment she looks at me as if I have just given her the best gift of her life. Ya, nothing tops PIV. nothing even comes close.
Is this the same person who was already posting about this exact thing a couple of days ago? Despite the fact that Tupac wrote “revenge is the sweetest joy next to getting pussy”?
If you’re so insecure about your pussy, do r/pompoir to level it up.
Also, if dudes didn’t physically love being in a pussy we would have a lot fewer accidental pregnancies. There’s no way they’d have to fight so hard not to bust inside.
It’ll depend on the person.
For me it’d go Oral > Vaginal. Can’t comment on anal and I don’t like just a hand.
The world quite literally revolves around vagina. I’m sorry that man made you believe that, but super untrue. Sidebar: buttsex is a close second, but I am also a self proclaimed butthole connoisseur.