How often do you treat your SO?

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1. every day …. with my presence 🤣

2. Not sure how to quantify that. If I see someone I think she’ll like then I buy it.

3. I try to do a little something every day, whether that’s a quick cuddle, do some chores for him, showering him with compliments, or pamper him during sex.

4. We go half and half on everything. He pays for one thing, I pay for the next. Like, yesterday, I picked up a ton of “fun” food for us. He might do the same tomorrow or the next day.

5. I don’t know to be totally honest. I bought his PS5 and that was really the end all be all gift that he wanted. Ironically I play it more than he does. He always beats me to the punch with treating or gift giving. He’s sneaky and buys stuff that I like without so much as a hint and it’s hard to keep pace with him. Like even in the bedroom, he’s usually the one on the giving end like it gives him pleasure to pleasure me.

   As far as paying for a night out, we share a bank account so it’s kinda irrelevant who pays, it’s both our money. Damn, I feel like I’m not pulling my weight now that I’m laying my cards out there.

6. Every day, but not always a big grand gesture. Sometimes it’s having dinner ready on the table when he gets home from work, putting a tall glass of ice water by the door when he gets home from hockey, a secret note in his lunch, cleaning/organizing his things so he comes back to a clean space, picking up a treat he loves or suggesting a movie I know he wants to watch. It truly is the little things!!

7. As often as I can. I enjoy writing him letters, and when I’m with him giving him lots of cuddles.

   I enjoy paying for dates as a treat but I also enjoy spending time cooking together, it’s really fun

8. Pretty regularly. I do the cooking, make coffee, and pack lunches. I will also bring her breakfast / lunch / dinner / snack if we’re on the same schedule. I bring home the occasional just because treat, like a cookie or coffee. I keep food and snacks stocked. Plus I keep the liquor cabinet and syrups stocked. My wife likes the occasional cocktail.

   It’s not really big gestures like a dozen red roses. But coffee and lunch just magically appears everyday.

9. Weekly if not every few days.

10. Im single now, but I have always thought that presents are to be given any day. Maybe I walked into a place and saw something they might like so I got it for them. Maybe I saw a new restaurant that I really want to try so I pay the bill. I dont keep track, nor I plan it. Sometimes is simply mending their clothes or cleaning their shoes or getting them that medicine that might help with backpain (yes, millenial love).