Helping with No Help

I feel these days, I can help my friends, family and gf with their problems whether it be with work, relationships, life, etc. When I ask for help though, I feel like some around me just go silent, give bad advice, help me for 2 minutes or are just unable to help me.

I help others bc the world’s full of abundance. I had to teach myself everything from learning how to cook, talk to others, be an effective employee, be a good friend/bf, change a flat tire, care for a dog, you name it. Idk if this helps but I come from a small, immigrant family. Does anyone else feel this or is there maybe something I’m doing something wrong in life?