Basically, I had a one night stand a few months before I met my girlfriend and she left a necklace behind and never came back to get it even thou I asked her if she wanted it back.
Its just been sitting around in one of my drawers for months now so I was thinking I could give it to my girlfriend or is that immoral and weird, or am I overthinking it?
Update: I donated it to a charity shop
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Lol 😂 No don’t do that
Do it. There’s no possible way that your gf will find out and burn your house down while you’re sleeping in it.
Just get it placed In a jewelry box and gift pack it. Don’t give. When a fight breaks – use it then 🤣
(just a joke)
How do you think your girlfriend would react if you told her this? Would you be able to explain how you got it if she asked?
If she thinks it would be as funny as hell then do it.
If you are not sure, or if it would be a bad reaction, then probably not.
Pawn it. Then use the money to open a crypto wallet and buy a coin and gift it to her. If its value goes down, its her problem. If it goes up, she won’t mind if the truth resurfaces.
Are you going to be looking at that necklace around her neck and thinking about how it belonged to your ONS?
Sure, why not?
If the ONS didn’t come to get it, it’s not worth anything. Throw it away.
Would you want something left behind by an ex boyfriend? I’d find that disrespectful. Hard no! Even the thought of you thinking about it is upsetting.
This is the most George Costanza question I’ve ever seen on this sub soo yes I’m sure the outcome will be mildly entertaining
As a girl, I’m not sure I would really care. It probably doesn’t have enough value to be pawned and otherwise it’s just sitting there, I’d rather put it to use than just leave it there. But maybe get a cute little box for it from a dollar tree or something and spray her favorite cologne of yours (or don’t it doesn’t really matter). If you think this would make her think twice then don’t tell her where you got it from! What she doesn’t know (in this specific situation) won’t hurt her!
Just no.
You can do it. You just have to lie about where you got it for the rest of your life.
Just don’t. No matter how expansive it looks just don’t don’t don’t.
No no no no no no no no no no.
Sell it, throw it or give to literally any random girl but not to your gf and don’t even mention about it ever.
You don’t know when that one night stand girl might come back and notice this jwellery on your gf. I’m sure you won’t want this.
If you keep it hidden, and someday your girl sees it, it’ll be messy explanation.
Too expansive shit to deal with this, so just get rid of it
No don’t do