what is the worst thing that you have recovered from in a relationship? Be it marriage or bf gf?

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1. bf cheating (multiple women), was extremely good at hiding it and playing victim had me thinking I was nuts. Stopped dating all around for like a little over a year needed time but I’m so much better now

2. My ex SAed me. He coerced me and *forced* me to do things that I wasn’t comfortable/okay with. I stayed with him for a while because I didn’t really know how to leave the relationship/was scared of him. He was also super verbally/mentally abusive and manipulative. I have PTSD from SA and had a really hard time with sexual interactions after it. It’s been about 5 years or a little over now.

3. My wife

4. still trying to recover. And still in the relationship.