Anyone else prefer fingering over oral?

10 comments

1. My wife

2. It’s not like you can’t get both at the same time…

3. I had a FWB that could only handle oral or fingering, but not both at the same time because it distracted her. She said that fingering felt the best, so I mostly just fingered her.

4. My wife is *exactly* the same. She finds the broader scope of pressure when fingering is better for her. However, she knows how much I love her taste so she is good about mixing it up.

5. It won’t be weird to share with him, trust me. This is because some people just don’t enjoy that tongue-on-clit feeling, and that’s totally OK! You are someone who prefers more manual stimulation (fingers are much firmer and less slobbery!). There’s no such thing as “normal” when it comes to sex—you like what you like. If there’s something you don’t enjoy, you don’t need to force yourself to enjoy it. [Find the things you do like](https://366sexhacks.wordpress.com/2022/08/18/fingering-her/) and focus on doing those things. But more importantly, *share those things with your partner.*

   The “downgrade” ego feeling is often based on simple inexperience, poor technique, or embarrassment about not knowing what to do. Teach him what you like, and you both will be very grateful.

6. I need fingers with my oral.

7. If the woman prefers faster and stronger thrusting, fingering is always better than oral. Woman who know what they want ask for it. Glad you know what you want. You could say fingers excites you more than tongue. Nothing wrong/weird with sharing what turns you on.
   At the same time, if oral excites him more, you gotta bear with it for him.. Talking helps.

8. He should using both. Tongue on the gspot and fingers in the hole

9. I’m the same way!

10. My wife is the same. It’s not just me or how I do it. When ither guys eat her out she gets bored too. Fingering her the right way gets her to squirt though.