So I heard people say “you don’t need someone to go with you to places, just go and talk to people there”
The question is, howww?? How to approach people in a way that is not invasive, or awkward and get something good out of it? Meaning, that maybe you say a few things to them, be nice, and laugh, but after that, you both go separate ways.
I’m interested in finding people to be friends with, so I wish the interaction lasted more than that
Lately, I’m going to Fairs (idk if it’s the right term for it) there are stands for food and design products, some talks, and raffle, but not really activities that could help you get to know strangers
There are a lot of young people there and what I notice is this:
\- They usually go with someone else: Friends, partners, family
\- Mostly they just walk around the stands, and then they sit and eat and talk with the people they came with
\- (I’m also interested in meeting guys to go out with) But the few times I saw a cute guy there are usually with their girlfriends (or if not, how to approach them?)
\- If for example, a group of friends is sitting playing cards or something like that, I guess I could ask to join, but how to ask in a non-creepy way? I’m seriously asking
I know that not everyone is gonna e interested and some people could react fine and others not, I’m just looking to have the best game here
What would you say in my place?
Tl;dr: Looking to meet new people on events (for friendship or dates) looking for ideas on what to say or how to approach
(F 33 if that helps with something)