Hey everyone,
So as the title suggests, I (20F) had a first date with a girl (20F) last night who without a doubt gave me the worst kiss I’ve ever had. It was so incredibly bizarre.
I met up yesterday for the date with the girl and everything was going great. We’re both immigrants so we were talking about everything from our old lives and leaving our families behind, teaching each other our native languages, art, etc. Everything clicked and it helped that she is without question one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen.
We are sitting at this bar and start kissing and this is when I start internally screaming. The kiss was just….a hot ass mess. For reference, I have an extra set of teeth further behind my first set. This woman jammed her tongue so deep and high in my mouth that she was licking around my extra set of teeth and the back of my first set. She then proceeded to lick my gums and try to stick her tongue so far down my mouth that it seriously felt like I was choking on her tongue. I try to pull away and this is when she starts biting into my lip like an apple to hold me there (she thought it was sexy?). I’m in pain and want to retreat into a shell and when we pull away she looks at me with a smirk and says “you like huh😏”. I wanted to ask her why she was even back there to be licking my extra set of teeth.
At this point I want to punch her in the chest for even asking such a question but I’m sitting there confused as to how in tf someone learned to kiss like this, especially when they look like her. She gets up to use the restroom and I’m sitting in the corner feeling violated.
Is there a way to salvage this? For those who dated bad kissers, how did you fix it?
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Your experience sounds something like [this](https://youtu.be/1W34wyKZlWQ)
My bf in this moment, God knows why, has become an horrible kisser (….-_-‘). Maybe he’s anxious and maybe anxiety let him act like a “I’m the best, I’m gonna move all around and up and down and here and there and with the tongue in your throat -______-‘ i’m sorry i’m saying this, but it’s the Truth). Anyway, what I do Is: I take his face in my hand and I tell him ‘slow down (big smile here)’ or ‘would you like to do xyz’ ‘I would love to…’ that Is how I like to be kissed. I whispered what I like in his ears. Easier for me, since we are a couple…but you can try, if you like her!